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a slight confusion of terms.

December 14, 2006


nostalgia:  a wisftul desire to return in thought or in fact to a former time in one's life, to one's home or homeland, or to one's family and friends; the sentimental yearning for the happiness of a former place or time:  a nostalgia for his college days.

memory:  something remembered:  pleasant childhood memories

it is not nostalgia that i feel.  it was simply a memory brought to life:  a mock proposal that led to a mock engagement.  it wasn't real — all of it.  (well, it was because it happened.  but it wasn't because it was all a charade. )

i cannot explain it in a way that you could or would understand.  after all, how could a girl accept a proposal without being serious about it?  if you've lived my life, you can believe it.  in my early 20's and totally innocent of the inner workings of love and relationships, what did i know?  all i knew was that he was in love with me (or so it seemed) and i liked the "me" he saw in his (smitten) eyes. 

so no, nostalgia isn't the word for it, my love.  it was but a memory and a question unanswered. 

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jundics:

Hi jopie,
murag serious kaay kas imung new entries da! Take it easy….and tnx for sharing, i wouldnt have known such sensitivities….cheers to blogging!

himantayon:

agi agi lang :) ..

kat:

jops, i can’t open my personal mail here. :( but u can email me at aconsola@lexmark.com. :)

theicequeen:

hi isay! i’m fine… a li’l bit stressed out but fine. congrats diay oi! yehey! graduate na ka before you know it! so happy for you! :-)

theicequeen:

kaith, i sent you email. :-)

isay:

hoppin’..musta naka jopay??

Kat:

jops, are u going home here in cebu?? :)

tiris:

haha ka tag-an ko! haha! anyway, missya where have u been? abi ko niuli na ka. tawgi nya ko or tawgan tikaw hehe kutob kinsa kauna =P

theicequeen:

sus kaith, sugot jud ko! kana kung mo-salig ka nako. hehehe. baby-sitting newbie baya kaayo ko. ;-)

theicequeen:

bilib gyud ko nimo, tiris! hehehe. *wink wink*

Kat:

hi jops! sus, kung silingan lang unta ta no, i could leave raf with u. but then, he’s no angel. haha.

tiris:

jops, mao ni sya kadtong magpa drive nimo? hehehe!

theicequeen:

small world, mai noh, matud pang tiris. ;-)

mai:

i.hi ko ni ngoy (inger) and mike (luke)…

theicequeen:

aw, kung magkita mi’g balik, tiris. *assuming* hehehe. bitaw oi, they seemed like a really nice couple.

tiris:

how small the world gets. inger was my classmate in UP hehehe! super shy. how are they? send my regards if kaila pa sya hehe *uwaw*

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